- To be role competent it is necessary to know when to follow and when to violate social roles.
- In order to cooperate effectively, members of social groups most control and coordinate one another’s activities.
- One of the strongest forms of social control is the role.
- It is useful to distinguish between role and position.
- A position indicates where we stand in comparison to others in a social hierarchy; for example, on a college campus “president,” “professor,” “student,” and “staff” are positions.
- Roles are the behavioral expectations associated with a position; for example, faculty are expected to know their material, to convey it to students, and to show concern for student welfare.
- Role have at least four characteristics:
- Roles are learned.
- Roles are general.
- Roles affect beliefs about the self.
- Everyone plays multiple roles.
- According to McCall and Simmons, three sets of factors determine how important a role is.
- The degree of support we receive for playing a role determines its salience to us.
- In his Looking-Glass Self theory, Cooley states that we are affected by others’ reactions to us.
- Social comparison theory holds that we need to have our abilities and opinions validated by others.
- The amount of commitment we feel toward a role also determines role salience.
- Self-perception theory maintains that rather than knowing internally what we think or feel, we observe our external actions and infer internal states.
- If we see ourselves enacting a role, we assume it is a role we value.
- The kinds of rewards we receive for playing a role determines role salience.
- Sometimes merely enacting a role gives us intrinsic rewards.
- At other times we enact a role because it provides us with extrinsic rewards.
- Embedded in every role are instructions about how to communicate that role.
- Erving Goffman has argued that we are like actors, putting on a performance.
- Much of our social interaction is face-work.
- Face is that part of self we present to others for approval.
- Line consists of the verbal and nonverbal behaviors we use to present face.
- Face-work is the time and effort we spend performing face.
- competent individuals protect their own face and line and that of others.
- To present face to others, we must control the environments in which we act as well as the people who support our performances.
- The arena in which we perform is our front region; it consists of setting (environment) and personal front (clothing and artifacts.)
- When we are not performing, we escape to our back regions.
- The other people who support our performance are part of our role set; we coordinate our performance with them through altercasting, mirroring, and mutual negotiation.
- Narrative theorists argue that we are storytellers.
- We create autobiographies to tell ourselves and others who we are.
- Groups crease social identity by sharing stories about their successes and failures.
- Nations create myths that define national character and identity.
- Showing politeness and respect are skills essential to role competence.
- Politeness is not just about trivial social niceties; it allows people to live in harmony.
- There are three components to politeness and respect: interpersonal sensitivity, maintenance of face, and the ability to balance solidarity and independence.
- In order to be polite, people need to be sensitive to others’ needs.
- Sensitive communicators show empathic concern.
- (1) Empathy increases when we pay attention to others’ emotional expressions.
- (2) Communicating more expressively can enhance the ability to empathize.
- (3) Empathic communicators resist defining others’ experience in terms of their own.
- Sensitive communicators can take the perspective of others.
- (1) By consciously reminding ourselves to be more mindful, we can increase perspective-taking.
- (2) Seeking feedback from others can correct faulty perspective-taking.
- Being respectful implies a willingness and ability to maintain the face of others.
- Respectful communicators recognize how important it is for people to have their views of self accepted.
- Respectful communicators monitor their behavior for face-threatening acts.
- Politeness and respect involve being close without being intrusive and allowing others privacy without being distant.