- Chapter 6
- The process of perceiving and interpreting the social world is a complex process that affects communication. Perception is affected by emotions, motivations, and social-cognitive norms.
- Emotional states shape and facilitate our perceptions by guiding attention and affecting memory.
- When strong emotional are experienced during an encounter, they amplify our memory of that encounter.
- We often match our memories to our emotions, retrieving happy memories when we are happy and sad memories when we are sad.
- Individual motivations also influence how we perceive and interpret interactions.
- Motivations can affect us without our being aware of them.
- Motivations can automatically affect attention, judgment, and action.
- Motivations that are primed in one context can influence perceptions in other seemingly unrelated social contexts.
- Schemata such as scripts and stereotypes also have a dramatic influence on how we perceive people and social events.
- Rather than painstakingly processing every detail of social experience, our brains are structured to rely on socially learned categories of thought that fill in details.
- The principle of least effort reflects this tendency to rely on cognitive schemata more than on the actual details of a given situation.
- Understanding social cognition is necessary because cognitive schemata affect us in several ways.
- They affect how we receive and interpret the messages of others.
- They guide our actions in response to others.
- By questioning their appropriateness, we can assert control over the perceptual process.
- As we communicate, we alter the content of our social cognitions.
- We use a variety of cognitive schemata to guide perception.
- Personal constructs allow us to identify the characteristics of persons, places, and social events.
- Person prototypes are used to classify and label people.
- Stereotypes offer us expectations about how a member of a social or cultural group is likely to act.
- Role and relationship schemata tell us the rules, norms, or patterns of interaction we associate with a given role or relationship.
- Self-schemata serve as expectations and guides for how we will or should act towards others.
- Event schemata, such as scripts and situational definitions, provide us with guidelines for how we should behave in particular circumstances.
- Interpersonal success depends on our ability to evaluate schemata critically and process information carefully.
- Attending to information about social situations can enhance communication.
- Identifying and recognizing different types of social episodes lets us know what kinds of communication are called for.
- Questioning the value of typical social scripts and patterns can allow us to act creatively.
- Recognizing that situational forces are often invisible to us is an important step to becoming more mindful.
- Forming accurate and fair impressions of others is an essential part of communication competence.
- In employing personal constructs to describe others, it’s important to use interaction as well as physical, role, and psychological constructs.
- Recognizing the fact that implicit personality theories can be false can improve communication.
- Because of the primacy effect, we are biased toward first impressions and often fail to adjust them as we observe new behavior.
- Being mindful of how our sense of self and our relational expectations affect communication is important.
- Self-monitoring, or adapting one’s sense of self to be more appropriate to both the situation and relationship, is a communication-related skill.
- Being attentive to the relational definitions we create can improve communication.
- Relationship prototypes and master contracts offer us instructions for interaction.
- Critically examining the attributions we make about the causes of behavior can improve communication.
- According to attribution theory, the causes of behaviors can be seen as situationally- or personality-based.
- Initial situational or personality attributions can be adjusted by employing discounting or augmenting rules.
- Our attributions are often biased.
- The tendency to bias attributions by making first impressions lasting is called the anchoring effect.
- The tendency to overestimate personality when making attributions about others reflects our cultural tendency to champion individualism.
- The counterpart of overestimating personality is underestimating situation.
- There is a tendency for people to be self-serving in their attributions by providing situational accounts for their own negative behavior while being less generous toward others.
- We are often overconfident in the accuracy of our perceptions of others.
- Because we rely so heavily on cognitive schemata, we tend to be naive realists, believing that what we perceive is always accurate.
- 1. One reason we take our perceptions at face value is that doing so allows us to act quickly on the basis of limited, incomplete information.
- 2. Another reason for naïve realism is that we internalize the beliefs of those around us.
- Not all information processing is schematic; we sometimes attend to data in more mindful ways. Dual-processing theories describe this process.
- Initially, during attention and identification, we notice and categorize objects or people.
- We begin by attending to particularly salient features that are intense, novel, sudden, or changing.
- Processing is likely to remain mindless unless the perceiver has a self-relevant reason for evaluating the situation in a more data-driven manner.
- During controlled processing, perception may become more nuanced but not completely unique or data-driven. Although perceivers are more mindful, they still rely on preexisting social categories.
- Finally, during personalization, the perceiver becomes actively involved in organizing information around the unique person, free of stereotypes or other categorical expectations.
- V. Mindfulness is a skill that is necessary for interpretive competence.
- Unlike open-mindedness, which is a long-term personality characteristics, mindfulness is a momentary state of lively alertness.
- Although many people assume that being mindful is effortful, this is not the case.
- There are several ways to become more mindful.
- To increase mindfulness, communicators should become more aware of the fact that perception is socially determined.
- Awareness of the contextual triggers that govern behavior can increase mindfulness.
- 3 Asking ourselves why we are taking an action can enhance mindfulness.
- Critical examination of old habits as well as attempts to seek out new solutions can enhance mindfulness.
- Communicators can become more mindful by avoiding self-censorship and premature cognitive commitment.