- There are many ways to define communication.
- The purpose of a definition is to set boundaries and focus attention.
- Definitions can be narrow or broad and can focus on sender or receiver.
- Each definition of communication tells us something about a phenomenon, yet also leaves something out.
- Definitions should be judged by their usefulness, not in absolute terms.
- The definition used in this book–communication is a process whereby humans collectively create and regulate social reality–focuses on several characteristics of communication.
- It views communication as an ongoing process.
- It concentrates on human communication.
- It stresses the fact that communication is collective, i.e., social.
- It argues that when we communicate we do not reflect an already existing reality; instead we create reality.
- It notes that we use communication to control ourselves and others.
- This definition implies several things:
- People with different communication experiences see the world in different ways.
- We are often controlled by what we create through communication.
- Communication takes place in a social context.
- It is important to focus on what people do together, not who they are separately.
- Communicative competence is the ability to communicate in a personally effective and socially appropriate manner.
- Scholars who study competence distinguish between two kinds of competence: internal or process competence, and external or performative competence.
- Process competence is internal. For purposes of analysis, it can be divided into five parts.
- Message competence is the ability to translate action into specific message choices. It is a process of coding and decoding.
- Message competence involves the ability to process and use verbal codes.
- Message competence involves the ability to process and use nonverbal codes.
- Message competence involves the ability to listen to the verbal and nonverbal messages of others.
- Interpretive competence is the ability to label, organize, and interpret the conditions surrounding an interaction. It is a process of perceiving.
- Role competence is the ability to take on social roles, to know how to act appropriately in those roles, and to decide whether to accept those roles. It is a process of adapting.
- Self competence is the ability to choose and present a desired self-image. It is a process of self-presentation.
- Goal competence is the ability to set goals, anticipate consequences, and choose effective lines of action. It is a process of planning.
- Process competence is affected by context.
- Cultural values affect what it means to be a competent communicator.
- Culture is the set of values, beliefs, and customs that bind people together.
- The way we use communication to complain is an example of how culture determined communication competence, as is the extent to which we value modesty.
- History is an important context for communication. What it means to communicate competently changes over time.
- An example of how communication changes over time can be found in changing attitudes toward love and sex.
- The values attached to being direct have also changed over time.
- Technology is another factor that affects competence.
- Nowadays being competent means using electronic communication wisely.
- The wide availability of cell phones has also changed what it means to communicate interpersonally.
- Different relationships call for different kinds of competence.
- Knowing the rules that govern communication and being sensitive to context does not always guarantee success. We must also master performative competence.
- Performative competence is the ability to translate our knowledge of how to communicate into actual behavior.
- Performative competence comes with practice.
- Communication can be improved by taking a process perspective–that is, by observing and monitoring communicative behavior.