Read the explanations below to reflect on the qualities of your friendship.
Based on your responses, the qualities of your friendship share some traits with each of the following:
Loyal
This is close a friend you can count on. You are likely to disclose a great deal to each other (page XXX) and to back each other up, even when things are difficult. This is likely to be a long-term relationship (page XXX) with the rewards that come from knowing that someone knows you well and is there for you no matter what.
Independent
This is a friendship that doesn’t require a great deal of commitment. You are able to get together when you like without feeling a strong sense of obligation to do so (page XXX). Although not as close as some friendships, this one may be valuable, particularly if other obligations claim a lot of your time right now. Not every one has to be a best friend. Just be careful not to let your desire for independence keep you from forming strong bonds with one or two friends you can always count on.
Far Yet Close
This seems to be an enduring, long-term friendship (page XXX) that remains strong even though you’re not able to be together in person as much as you would like. You are likely to enjoy the benefits of being emotionally connected without much obligation to do things together or for each other (page XXX). It can be a great feeling to know that distance and time cannot dim the memories you have shared together. At the same time, be sure not to take this friendship for granted. A thoughtful text or call may help you feel close even when you’re not together physically.
Evolving
It’s likely that your friendship is still developing. Your sense of obligation (page XXX) is likely to be low at this stage, as you venture to disclose more about yourselves to each other (page xxx). It remains to be seen if this will be a short- or long-term relationship (page xxx), but the benefits of having strong friendships suggest that it may be worth the effort to find out.