Self, Perception, and Communication
The Self-Concept Defined
- Self-concept includes people's sense of what is unique about them and what makes them similar to others.
- Self-esteem involves people's evaluations of self-worth.
Factors That Influence Communication and Self-Concept
- Signifcant others
- Mass media
- Culture
- Expectations
Common Errors in Attribution
- Individuals judge themselves more charitably than they judge others.
- People pay more attention to negative impressions than to positive ones.
- When people do perceive positive qualities, they tend to overgeneralize.
- People gravitate to the familiar.
Misconceptions About Gendered Communication
- Myth 1: Sex and gender are the same.
- Myth 2: People are either male or female.
- Myth 3: Gender is a continuum.
To Communicate Empathy
- Image the other person's perspective.
- Experience what the other person is feeling.
- Show genuine concern.
Emotional Intelligence Includes
- Self-awareness of emotions
- Self-regulation of emotions
- Internal motivation to preserve
- Empathy
- Social skills
Stages in Perception Checking
- Describe the behavior you noticed.
- Suggest at least two possible interpretations of the behavior.
- Ask for clarification about how to interpret the behavior.
Identity Management Involves
- Collaboration with others
- Multiple identities
- Conscious or unconscious effort
- Degrees of self-monitoring
- Role expectations
- Goals
Identity and Social Media
- Social media can boost self-esteem.
- The ultimate confidence arises from a sense that people accept you as you are.
- Self-esteem can enhance emotional resilience.